Of course my divorce is not finalized but due to the fact my soon to be ex and I have been separated since October 2013 and in the middle of actual divorce since this January..well..OH no.
I have just suddenly realized I don’t want to date. I love being married. I love being with only one man. I haven’t dated in…well over a decade…and even then I hated it. OH my..
I just want to say for a girl it’s so unfair. Especially when my soon to be ex was unfaithful. At least he’s been on the dating scene (for a while with his five or more lovers…not to mention….grrrr sorry can’t tell you yet). OH crap…
So I looked up a blog on some guy that tried out some app called Tinder. I figured I’d at least read about it and see if that was a good start. From what he stated it’s a buffet of women (and men) wearing hardly any clothes and most men are there for one night stands. I’m a girl, I don’t want one night stands. If I did I’d just walk to a bar and ask for takers. Us girls have that advantage. But that’s not me. Oh *sigh*….
Next problem..as you can tell on any of my stuff I’m not a picture girl. So how do I do that? If I take a great picture of me, then what if during a date night the guy goes “ugh, that’s not what she looked like on the picture.” If I take a bad picture a man (yes, being sexist but only due to facts) a man always goes by looks first. What if I lose a very good future guy as a lover or friend due to a “bad picture” and hooty girl gets him. Oh pooy…..
What about sexy picture. I have sexy pictures. I’m a pretty girl….but I don’t want them on the internet. I have a job to worry about. I don’t want them on someones phone…they’ll wind up on the internet. But will I regret not trying to compete with betty boop for a date? Also, how to you date and let a man know he’s not gonna get lucky because I’m not a fast stop and go for a man. At least I don’t want to be..OH Help……
I hate my soon to be ex! We were suppose to grow old together, go on vacations together, take care of each other, laugh and giggle all night long, cook dinners and fight over toilet paper rolls going the wrong way. Now I have to either prepare myself for the weird dating world of today..start showing picture of myself like a commercial…and pray to God I get a half way decent man. Or just stay single for the rest of my life. OH I need advice……..
When the time comes what do I do?